Cindy
May, 25 2019 at 10:53 am

Hi I am in love with a great guy, we dated for two months without any fights just very in love, I think I made a mistake not recognizing signs he was going through a challenging time. I thought he was less interested in me and when he asked me to go out again after two weeks of changing plans I took it personally and told him that despite the fact I was missing him, I wasn’t feeling like spending the night with him at those terms, I wrote to him I needed to spend time with him to reconnect because he was not as present and attentive as he used to be. After three long days he replied he was sorry he put me in such a bad situation, that he needed to solve some problems regarding him alone and had to do it on his own :-( He wrote he was very sorry he hadn’t been the same companion to me as he had been before. I replied I love him he replied that not only my world is fantastic, meaning he always called me I live in my own fantastic world... and sends me a kiss. After that days of unreplied messages, two long calls he tried to explain what he was going through and then now it is twenty days he has not replied to my messages :-( I have written to him today Stating I am very sorry for what I wrote I am sorry I didn’t understand that the night he wanted to spend with me was already a big effort for him, I feel very bad. He has not replied yet. What else can I say to make him understand that I never wanted to give us up?